About me
I'm a male sub looking for dominant playmates for soft D/s games. I live in Belgium (Europe, French speaking), 50 years old and still in a decent shape (1m73, 68kg; 5.67 ft, 149 lb). I'm married and I have a very traditional family life style. I appreciate that this is a problem for some Domme, so if you do not like this, then perhaps you do not want to read further.
So what am I looking for? I am essentially looking for virtual sessions. Having said that, if you are in Belgium, I am available for occasional real life encounters, but only if you live in Brussels, or around La Hulpe, Rixensart, Genval. I am into classical D/s games, but I particularly like teasing and denial, orgasm control, nipple play, clothespins, light CBT,... I like to be guided, instructed and having to answer embarrassing questions. I am very interested in sissy things, although I do not have any toys or outfit. I am NOT into impact play.
You need to like writing and be able to write correctly. I am not an English native speaker, but I am comfortable enough to play in English. I envision periodic but not frequent session, e.g. once a month, perhaps twice. Ideally, we would agree on the date and time. So you need to be patient. The reason for which I want to limit and control the frequency, is because I can become very addicted to those games. As I have a lot of other interests, I try not to spend too much time in front of my computer, and not to keep my brain too busy with those fantasies.
I would prefer someone older than 30 years old. Someone around my age would be perfect.
I have absolutely NO interest in findom. If that is what you do, do not waste your time contacting me.
Please do not tell me that I should not state so many conditions as a sub. For me, D/s is just an adult game, not a life style. I play this game sincerely and seriously, but it is just a game. In general, I am quite cooperative and open minded, so I am ready to experiment things that I do not list explicitly.
I like to be instructed to look at certain porn videos and having to comment on them, or having to explain how I position myself towards what I see. You should see this as a way to exert your control on me -- The control aspect is very important for me, and it works greatly when using teasing and denial games. At the risk of repeating myself, if you take pleasure in controlling someone's sexual life, then I am yours. You should also like to use babecock tools, such as this one: http://crazy-xxx.github.io/mt/mt.html . I fantasy on bi-forced scenes, feminization, etc. but this is just it: a fantasy in my head.
I may come on webcam from time to time, but it should essentially be text based and in real time (kik or other chat system). If I say that I do what you ask me to do, be sure it is the case, as this is my enjoyment. If I do not want to do something, I will say so, rather than pretending doing it. I prefer not to use too much the webcam, or pictures of myself, because I would like this to become something a bit different that just me showing on cam or in pictures. Having said that, I appreciate that you might want to check me from time to time.
Kik : tbantamus -- do not hesitate to contact me on kik, I like to chat.
You can also contact me by email on this address: 8a55876e7f@protonmail.com
Skype: Tristan_Bantamus (live:438c4ae4c3080086)
I am also on Xhamster (TristanBantamus5) and Fetlife (Tristan_Bantamus)
