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I've tried youtube videos but they never work. I like to think of myself as imaginative, but maybe I'm just not a good subject because I have trust issues with strangers? Anyway, I find this level of control profoundly erotic, and would like to experience it both as a subject and (at some point) a hypnotist. Please help me, folks! I just want to use this amazing skill to enhance my already amazing sex-life.